Semi-Wishing for Another Semi-Sabbatical
In late 2024, I embarked on a two-month journey across the globe. The idea for this trip had been brewing for over two years, ever since I casually told my boss that I’d eventually need an extended leave to attend a family reunion in the Philippines. Apparently, we run on Filipino time because it wasn’t until last year that those plans finally materialized. My grandparents’ 60th wedding anniversary served as the perfect impetus for the trip—a milestone deserving of celebration and a return to our roots. Using the anniversary celebration as a starting point, I extended the trip into a semi-sabbatical, exploring other countries outside of our organized group activities. By combining my annual leave with a flexible work schedule (thanks FHI), I was able to craft a broader itinerary that included both family time and personal adventures.
The trip naturally unfolded in three distinct segments, each offering its own mix of nostalgia, adventure, and self-discovery.
Segment 1: Philippines and South Korea
The first part of the trip revolved around visiting extended family in the Philippines. I spent time in Tagaytay, a picturesque area with its iconic views of Taal Volcano; Bulacan, home to our family compound and the setting of countless childhood memories; and Bataan, where I witnessed the release of baby turtles into the sea and enjoyed a fun night camping on the beach. Each stop offered its own blend of nostalgia and natural beauty, reconnecting me with my heritage in ways both profound and grounding.
Two weeks flew by as I caught up with many cousins and met new members of the family—including the surprising revelation that I’m a Lola already! Time seemed to stand still, yet it slipped by far too quickly. There’s an indescribable feeling that comes with returning to your roots, a mix of familiarity and rediscovery that leaves you simultaneously fulfilled and yearning for more. I left with core memories, a trove of new inside jokes, and a longing to linger just a little longer in the embrace of home.
Had I known that feeling beforehand, I would have extended my stay, but my plans were already set in motion. My next stop was South Korea, which added a contrasting yet complementary element to the trip. I met up with my friend, who would later join me for Segment 2 (see below), and together we immersed ourselves in the richness of Korean culture. We wandered the grounds of Gyeongbokgung Palace in traditional Hanbok, indulged in a variety of beauty treatments, and feasted on everything from authentic Korean barbecue to late-night 7/11 snacks. Our adventures also brought moments of quiet reflection and profound insight—whether through writing letters to our future selves in a charming cafe or standing at the DMZ, contemplating the region’s stark history and its impact on modern identity.
Each day in Korea was a carefully balanced blend of cultural discovery, introspection, and moments of unfiltered joy among two friends. And to think, this was just Segment 1.
Segment 2: Southeast Asia Cruise
How do you top that? By embarking on a Southeast Asia cruise with 22 of your closest family and friends, of course. This cruise was the centerpiece of the journey, celebrating my grandparents’ milestone anniversary on January 1 and taking us to Taiwan, back to the Philippines, Malaysia, Brunei, Vietnam, and Singapore. To do justice to this whirlwind experience, I may need to dedicate an entire post to it, but for now, I’ll say this: Balancing the energy and interests of family members across generations added a layer of unpredictability that made each day an adventure. From navigating bustling markets to sharing quiet moments at sea, this segment of the trip served as a beautiful (and occasionally chaotic) reminder of the ties that hold us together.
Segment 3: Bali and Australia
After spending two weeks with 22 people, I understandably shifted gears and opted for a solo retreat to Bali. I spent four days there, signing myself up for a yoga retreat, where I went full-on Eat, Pray, Love. It was exactly what I needed—quiet moments of reflection, peaceful surroundings, and plenty of time to unwind. I indulged in daily yoga sessions, nourishing food, and long walks around town, giving myself the space to truly reset. The retreat provided the perfect pause before diving into the final leg of my Australia journey. I’ll save those details for another post though (I think I’m starting to get tired of writing this blog?).
Nonetheless, reflecting on those two months, I can’t help but semi-wish for another semi-sabbatical. The experience reminded me of the importance of taking time away to reconnect—with family, with friends, with myself. It was more than a vacation; it was a deep dive into a slower, more intentional way of living. True fulfillment often comes from the moments we carve out, free from the pressure of the everyday hustle—here’s to making room for more of that, semi-sabbatical or not.
